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第13章保持平静小贴士TipsfCalm
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Iwatp;apos;sfumblingfingersasheslowlytedouttheebyone.Iwasallbutdangwithimpatiehecheeahexasperatime，hesmiledapologetically-atinysmileofhumiliationatbeingfeebleandholdinguptheos;sbusiness.
Thee.Puttingmyselfinhisshoes，Irealizedthatsomedaytheymightpioo，edepehekiraedhisfrayedsleeves."Takeyourtime，"Isaid，"there'snohurry."
ItoehowoftenIhadactedimpatiently-honkingmyhorthelightged，speakingsharplytosomeoouand.Diditmatter?Itdid.os;reimpatient，you'reapttoberude.Andsuchbehaviorister-productive，makingpeopleangryorstubbornoruive.
&otrybeorepatientandtodevelopvariousapproairessfulsituations.I'tclaimthattheseteiquestraoamodelofpatieheyhavehelpedmeelimiienylifeandostofit.
Afriendhadpassedtheintervieortantnewjob;allthatremainedwasforthepresidentoftheeethiswife.
Atsix，myfriendandhiswifewereiuheirwayintoNewYorkforaseveno'eheywerestilliuudaractor-trailer.Whentheyfihepresident'shotel，hehadgone，leavingnomessage.Hewouldaioday."Youshouldhaveplannedfordelays，"hesaid.
Impatientpeopledon'tliketowastetime，sotheygstooclosely.Theybudgetheexaumberofmiajouraskshouldtake，notallowingforthepossibilityofdelayortheuisbettertoprovideamargihemoreimportantyourappoihemoretimeshouldbeallotted.oiabsolutely'tbemissed，itpaystoallowridiountsoftime.
iedjobiscalamitous，butthecesofbeingheldupareseldomthatserious.Theyarenetti.
I'velearoaskmyself，"os;sthepen?"IftheaI'llmisstheopesofamovieorthestartofaballgame，I.WillIeveweekthatIwasteoday?Puttingmattersiiveshouldeaseyourimpatience.
Oneeveningasanacewasleavingforaweekendtrip，herp;apos;tstart-andthreefrieingtobepiastreeter.Shehadnowayofgettingwordtothem;theywereiserableandworriedwhenshearrivedanhourlate.Singherpredit，I'vealwaysarrapeoplewheretheyorIbereacaseofdelay.Iteobefarmorepatiehingsg.
Waitinginairportsisoryiuresofmodernlife.Iwaswatgtorrentialraihewindh-DurhamIionalAirport，tamefromhispodaskedifIlay.Weplayedwithpleasureforthefourhoursourplanewasdelayed.Nearus，amanworkedonhislaptopahroughastackofethodiingdowntheersofthepages，fillingoutorderblaimpatieheonesaitingareaandplainedloudly-werethosewhohadnothingtodobutputthevendingmaes.
InowassumeI'llenteradelay，soIalerbadworkscrosswordpuzzles.
AmanIkneaysragimpatientlyiure.Ifwemetforadrihefirstthialkedaboute'dgofordidihroughdesserttogettoamovie;atthemovie，hewasobeforethelastframefaded.Ahewayhome，heladay，year.
Neverdidheliveinhereandly，hep;apos;tenjoylife.
I'veetoappreciatethatlifehasitsowtakesenmonthstomakeababy，21yearstomakeanadult.Ittakesaloobeeagoodviolinistordowalsotakestimetobeeasudeveobeeasuccessasaperson.
&helastthingfimpatieoexamineyourowntributiontoit.Areyouunwillingtograolearn，orslowpeopletimetoaplishatask?Ifimpatienlyoal，yourannoyancewillpass.Butifyou'realmostalwaysirritableandabrupt，youmaywellfeelthatyou'rejusttooimportawaitingforahing.
You'renot，ofeofusare.Iftthattheworldisourstoenjoybutnotmadeforource，os;llbebetterablethitequably，morepatientwiththeordinaryvicissitudesoflifeandagoodpaniontoourfellowhumanbeingsandtoourselves.
老人慢慢地数着硬币，一个，两个……我盯着他颤抖的手指，恼怒地叹着气，不耐烦地在结账的队伍里晃着身子。
听到了我的叹息声，他抱歉地笑了笑——那是一种羞愧的笑，是一种因自己的衰弱耽误了社会事务而内疚的笑容。
那一刻，我后悔极了。
我想，终有一天自己也会像他那样，需要陌生人的善意。
于是，我拍了拍他磨损的衣袖，说：“别急，慢慢来。”
接着，我想起了自己很多次都缺乏耐心——绿灯一亮就按喇叭，尖刻地批评反应慢的人。
缺乏耐心有什么大不了的吗？是的，这样不行。
不耐烦时，你很容易表现的粗鲁，这种行为会引起他人恼火、固执或不合作等不良结果。
于是，我决定耐心点，也想出了在紧迫情形下能使自己平静的种种办法。
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